Drowning In Us: The Silent Desperation of Codependent Love
By Aaron J. Hathorn
 
You love them more than they know. But somehow, the more you give, the more invisible you feel.
 
You silence your needs to avoid conflict. You walk on eggshells just to keep the peace. You apologize for things that were never your fault. You stay—hoping they will finally see your worth, appreciate your loyalty, and love you back the way you love them.
 
But deep down, you are exhausted. Not just tired, spiritually drained.
You wonder, “Why do I keep choosing people who cannot choose me back?”
“When did love start feeling like survival?”
 
Drowning In Us is the lifeline you did not know you needed. It puts words to the confusion, the guilt, and the ache of losing yourself while trying to hold someone else together. Whether it is a partner, a parent, a child, or a friend—you are not crazy, too emotional, or too sensitive. You are stuck in a cycle of codependent love that punishes your heart while calling it devotion.
 
This book is not just a mirror. It is a breakthrough.
It peels back the layers of your pain and reveals the truth behind the patterns you could never explain.
You will finally understand why you feel addicted to being needed—and why walking away feels like betrayal even when you are the one bleeding.
 
✅ It works.
✅ It is clear and life-changing.
✅ You will rise from this.
 
Whether you are drowning in it or watching someone you love slip beneath the surface, Drowning In Us will give you the clarity, strength, and permission to stop settling for one-sided love. You will come out of this wiser, more powerful, and no longer willing to lose yourself to keep someone else whole.
This book will hurt in all the right ways.
And then it will heal you.
 
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